im not a guy...but i wanna share my two-cents on this matter also...(as heard by me from countless concerned friends, whose advises are all virtually the same)...
first of all,.."MOVE ON"..don't get urself stuck with a thing that's not gonna work anymore..it's just a matter of choice, and mind-set, really..."STAY IF UR HAPPY, LEAVE IF UR NOT!"...but this entails "both of u"..so if u think the other party's not that into u, then indeed, "HE'S NOT JUST THAT INTO YOU"..and the only way to get rid of that is to "LET HIM GO"..i know it's easier said than done, but really, that's the only remedy left for girls of the same situation like us...
another, and the most important (for me, at least)..."MAKE URSELF BUSY" to avoid all those unwanted yet unstoppable thoughts of you and him getting back together..i dreaded every waking up moments and i struggle real bad as to how im gonna make my day when all i wanna do is wallow in sorrow about the break-up, so beliv me, i know how it feels...but then. come to think of it, "WHO ARE U FOOLING??"..mao ni giingon nga ikaw ra puy gapasakit2x sa imong self..."LEAVE SOME LOVE FOR URSELF".."LOOK FOR DIVERSIONS"..find it with friends, in movies, in books, in tv series, etc...basta just always have something to do with your time...
lastly, "PRAY"...when all these fails, know that someone up there won't ever fail you...pray for the guy who broke your heart, pray for your heart, pray for yourself,..leave to him all ur pain, sorrow, and suffering...let it all out to him, if you cant do it with friends...
pero, seriously??...im not only telling this to starbucks...this goes out for me also...im actually convincing myself real hard on the things aforementioned..."good luck na lang jud nku!"..
